Please learn about this terrible form of child abuse and STAND UP to save the children.
The kids are used as pawns in a sick narcissistic game of control and hate, and are helpless to the manipulation. They lose the Joy and Love that they once lived and a destructive cognitive dissonance results that holds them hostage to their abuser. It is real … Please learn about it.
There exists many resources for understanding, here are a few:
- https://www.theantialienationproject.com/
- https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/head-games/202112/the-devastating-effects-of-parental-alienation
- https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics/parental-alienation#what-is-parental-alienation
- https://www.recorderonline.com/news/parental-alienation-awareness-day-is-april-25/article_f76ee85c-fcda-11ee-a922-7b83ec05f4a4.html
- https://amandasillars.com/blog
Quote from a Disconnected Alienated Child:
“I act like I don’t care, but deep inside, it really hurts. I feel angry, sad and confused. I shut down to disconnect or to protect myself.
I DO love you, but I am not allowed to show it. I don’t know if I own these thoughts, memories and feelings. I push you away because I go where there is least pressure. Seeing you, speaking with you or even talking about you in a positive way brings unbearable pressure from my mom.
I need you to understand how difficult this is for me.
Please keep showing me love and kindness even if I don’t respond.
Stay calm and please don’t react when I am in turmoil.
This will help me get through.”